To update a member's profile click:

members (directly below "chatroom" is a light pink "member's profile" tab)

member profile  (scroll down until you get to you, your spouse, or your child[ren])

You should be able to click the individual you want which will take you directly to their personal page.

edit (once you click edit, you will verify that the person has an address, home phone, e-mail, picture, and comments filled out) Comments is to list hobbies, what you are doing now, favorite things, favorite toys) Just something that let's us know more about the person if a visitor came to the website. Click on anyone's name to see examples of what others are saying if you need to. 

If you are updating a child's profile make sure to scroll down and check the box that says "lives with parents."  This way their information will not show up if it is not needed. 

To update a picture click on the member's name and to the right is "upload picture."  Just click and hit browse.  Just go to the files that contain your pictures and double click the one you want for theirs. 

I hope this helps everybody.  Don't be shy if you have ideas or questions.  I do want to let everyone know the homepage is off limits to changing because it is not the default homepage, and it will mess up.  Thanks!